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Based on your other posts about your body you prob have a fiiiine body. Women like that

really? you think you deserve that? ok then, let your bf make that call. If you think you deserve your bf because of your oh so hard drama with the X, then surely your bf will see it the same way and forgive you....right?

Believe me, I understand how you feel. I dated a woman for three years and in the beginning, I wanted more out of the relationship than she did (typical for me, which is something on which I must work); she wanted to take things slow and I didn't. As the relationship began to end, things reversed: She wanted to marry me while I, tired of waiting around for her to get her head together, just wanted to move on. It didn't mean I didn't want to eventually marry someone, but that I learned that it wasn't about getting marriage, but filling some empty spaces within myself that drove me to push for things to move quick earlier. This was dumb; it was infatuation at first sight, then realization that she just wasn't the type of woman with whom I wanted to spend my life. At the same time, I saw some of my friends marry and divorce, learning that one can force marriage to happen, but at a really high price to one's own sanity (and financial ruin) along with that of the other person.

People have even started calling me beautiful, that which they never did in drones before.

This should be the front page :)

I love people and I love life. I believe you should live and let liv.

Hello Ladie.

I think the fact that I felt stonewalled when he did that got to me from the start, as I have dated abusive men in the past and have a hawks eye for red flags, like traits that might suggest someone who uses the silent treatment to get what they want. It seemed like a very "silent treatmentish" red flag, and then with the long letter from the ladies, I just felt peeved beyond normal.